Those who are sensitive to frank discussions about sex are invited to click elsewhere, but consider this: If you are outraged by content that address sex openly and honestly, I invite you to examine this outrage and ask yourself whether it should instead be directed at those who oppress us by policing our sexuality.įor all others, enjoy the slideshow. And feel free to leave your own suggestions of sex and dating topics in the comments. Like everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. The views in this slideshow do not reflect those of The Advocate and are based solely off of my own experiences. My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly.